| Location | Hastings |
| Age | 19 years |
| Cause of Death | Sudden Arrhythmic Death Syndrome |
| Date of Birth | 22/07/1989 |
| Date of Death | 25/08/2008 |
| Visitors | 3,163 since 01/03/2009 |
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Jason was staying with his Gran at her holiday caravan in Winchelsea, East Sussex for the August Bank Holiday Weekend. She went out shopping in the morning, leaving him sleeping. When she returned at lunchtime he had got up, his breakfast was infront of him, but he had died.
Jase was 19 years old and although he had learning difficulties and diabetes, he was fit and healthy. He just woke up and died. This is referred to as sudden adult death syndrome.
Jase was a kind, loving boy who went out of his way to help people. Jase saw the good in everyone, and treated everyone as a friend. He had a great sense of humour and gave the best hugs. He always knew how to make you feel better.
Jase struggled with life because of his learning difficulties, but had great tenacity and never gave up. He was hard work at times, but the rewards he gave outdid any heartache. He was my friend, my baby, my reason for living and I miss him so very much.
My darling how I miss you at Christmas and always. What fun we had choosing and putting up the tree. God Bless you my darling and keep you safe in his loving arms.
Love always Granxxxxxx
3 years ago my world fell apart. you brought laughter and love wherever you were. Heaven will be a better place with you there. I miss you so much baby. Love you always xxx
We little knew that morning
that God was going
to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
you did not go alone;
for part of us went with you,
the day God called your home.
You left us peaceful memories,
your love is still our guide,
and though we cannot see you,
you are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken,
and nothing seems the same,
but as God calls us
one by one,
the chain will link again.
I love you and miss you so much Jase xxx
Can't believe its 2 years since you left us. Miss you so much. You are still a source of strength to me and I think of you all the time, especially when things go wrong. Your positive and forgiving attitude holds me in good stead. Sleep well and God Bless. Granxxxx
2 years without you baby, the pain hasn't got any less, and the emptiness I feel grows each day.
I love you and miss you so very much.
Mum x
My Darling Grandson
I can no longer see you my darling grandson
but you remain with me always.
From the break of day, to the setting sun
you will travel with me until the end of my days.
Life is hard without you
it is empty and cold:
But your spirit and endeavour in all that you did,
will give me the strength to carry on.
I'll think of the beach and fishing,
and you at the club.
I'll remember you cycling along the beach road,
I'll remember the laughter we shared
and the problems we solved with tears and love.
Sleep, rest, my beautiful boy
Always remembered, always loved.
(Written on September 26th 2008)
Jase,
13 months now, it doesn't get any easier. Only 3 weeks now till Kayleigh's wedding. How I am going to get through it without you, I don't know.
God bless my darling, sleep well.
I love you so much.
Mum xxx
~~~~~ I'll Try To Be Strong ~~~~~~~
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When the pain and grief are over
When it's my time to be by your side
I know you'll be waiting for me
And will greet me with arms open wide
♥
Until then I'll go on living
Though the light in my life has gone
The road will be long and lonely
But I'll bear up and try to be strong
♥
I pray that angels will guide me
Help me to get through this pain
Give me the strengh to go on
Till we are together again
copyright© Ingrid Aspey 2009
Jase,
A year without you. It still makes no sense. I love you and miss you so very much.
Deano, Luciano and Jake came up from the caravan to see you today. We went to the pub and had a few beers for you.
Your bench is being unveiled this weekend and I have started a pool competition at the clubhouse in your name. Your name will live on forever at Rye Bay.
God Bless my darling, I shall love you forever.
Mum xxx
Thank you everyone for your kind words, messages and photos. The support on this site is amazing and has got me through these 11 horrendous months. You have made this difficult day more bearable. Thank you all so much.
Sarah xx

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